How To Get Your Ex Back For Good!

How do you get your ex back for good?

Well... not by pleading and declaring your love with the promise you'd change or say anything to please her.

Or crying your heart out, with tears and snot and all, while you get down on your knees begging, hoping she'll have pity on your poor soul. And showing that without her you're now broken and completely obsessed with her ... scaring her away because there's a guy acting like a pride-less loser in her front door that looks just like her ex who used to be a cool guy.

... Not by calling constantly, or sending multiple text messages a day hoping she'll give in, raise the white flag, and come running back teary eyed because she can't take it anymore ... to only pressure her to distance herself away from you because she feels like she doesn't have any choice.

... Not by hovering around wherever she is like a creepy stalker and 'accidentally' bumping into her every day and talking about your old relationship ... until she get sick of you and want see less and less of you, making her realize she didn't want to be with you anymore.

... Not even by buying her flowers with a nice card, and calling her friends and family asking for help, knowing her friends and family will take her side, (and if not, she'll quickly convince them to) ... making her resent you more for getting her friends and family involved in the breakup.

... And of course, not by putting your life on hold and reserving yourself while you wait for her 'figure things out', thinking about her all the time ... trapping yourself in your old relationship unable to let go and move on.

Actually, you should forget about your old relationship. Consider it gone for good. Your old relationship is dead. Bringing it back to life, along with all its issues and reasons why your relationship ended, will only put you back where you are right now.

That's not how you get your ex back, not by being desperate and needy, making mediocre efforts, or being careless.

You probably know how ineffective they are and how they can actually hurt you when trying to get your ex back, and push your girl further away into the arms of another man. Suddenly, you'll just get news from some friends that she's out with a new guy.

If you're serious about getting your ex back... for good...

You should plan it out carefully. You need an excellent strategy to get your ex back that involves...

Taking some time off... to give yourself some time get over the initial pain of the break and think about what you really want. This means stopping all contact, including Facebook.

Taking a look at what led to your break up. Breakups don't happen out of the blue. There are warning signs here and there you might not have noticed, or simply ignored. It's a good idea to get clear on the 'real' reason why the relationship ended.

Thinking why you want her back and if you really want her back. If it's because you don't like  being single, or you feel sad and lonely, that doesn't mean you should be with her. Those feelings will go away with time. (Another reason for taking some time off.)

Working on yourself. Get a fresh start, new hair style, new clothes -- not to impress her but to get your confidence back. Work on loving yourself... because the better your self-esteem the better prepared you'll be when you try to get your ex back.

Be the guy she was attracted to. It's a must to get your ex back.

Developing the skills with women you might have lost over the years: flirting, attracting women, arousing women, making women horny. The set of skills most guys forgets when it gets comfortable in the relationship. Focus on these right now before it becomes too late, and before she meets another guy who flirts, tease, turns her on, and arouses her the way you used to.

Reconnecting with text. Make sure you do a lot of the preparatory before you initiate contact. Then you can remind her of the good times you shared in a subtle way. You can even share lighthearted memories with her. And dropping hints you're still interested along the way.

Reminding her of the person she fell in love with... to give her reasons to remember all things she loves about you, and accentuate the things you know she loves: your sense of humor, your confidence, your charm. And you'll be able to do the subtle things that attracted her in the first place.

And of course, meeting with your ex. It's important to show you've moved past your old relationship. If you make her feel the same old you, that will turn her off and she won't be interested in giving you another shot. Use the attraction techniques and conversation skills you learned to make her feel different about you.

When she feels attraction and respect she never felt before, she'll feel that her life isn't right without you in it and rationalize things as being a sign to give things another chance.

Along the way, if you can make her feel like she could lose you to someone else, turn her attention from the bad times to the good times you've had together, and make her crave you in a sexual way... she can't help but get back to.

That's how you get your ex back!

You do it step by step, following a set plan and strategy that's been proven to get exes back time and time again. Although getting your ex back is not gonna be easy, there's no quick fix to a broken relationship.

And... if you want a step-by-step plan that holds your hand along the way, complete with a proven long-term strategy that uses a specific sequence of text messages with detailed examples that show you exactly what to text, when to send the text, which will make your ex...

• Focus on what she secretly loves about you and see you in a new way,
• Forgive you for everything you feel you've done wrong,
• Forget about any other man,
• Quickly change her attitude towards you, think about you, and fantasize about you,
• Starts calling you to hear your voice,
• Finally begs you to be together to talk and do anything she has to wrap herself in your arms again, and swear getting back together was her idea.

You can check out Michael Fiore's Text Your Ex Back. It has sneaky tricks, relationship hacks, and uses a lot of human psychology to re-awaken her attraction to you, help her decide to give you another shot, and get her convinced that seeing you was her idea... so when you get back together, you stay together.

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Going for Small Talks

You can easily make friends just because you can easily talk them about anything. Think about it, most relationships gets a jump start just because of a little small talk.

That next friend you meet is just a small talk away if you think about it. Even in the professional world, learning to be great at making small talk will help you. There are some things you can do to improve your small talk skills.

Sure, it means a lot of practice and doing this will improve all your conversational skills. If you want to improve and master making small talk, just read along.

Surely, you've realized that one of the best way to improve is just conversing with people of all ages. Talking to your neighbour is really a good exercise for this since you don't have to go very far. It doesn't have to be anyone specific or even young for that matter. If you happen to meet some tourists, go ahead and talk to them. Nothing beats practice with a stranger you don't know.

Get inspiration from newspapers, cookbooks and magazines of things to talk about to make small talk sexy. Anything you can get your hands on can be a good source of things to talk about.

Other great sources of small talk topics include television, music, sports, and fashion. Spend some time on the internet reading about the type of people you want to meet. If you hear something funny or someone told you a good story, keep a note of it. Think of the beautiful places you see, even misunderstandings you have can be a good opening line.

Practice those opening lines in the mirror and talk about random topics. All the various things you know will help you greatly with making small talk happen.

If you know a lot of things, you can talk about a lot of things. Just make sure you're making yourself open for small talk and keep your eyes and ears open. You can talk to people every time you're in a line and waiting for your turn. Create a situation for yourself where you'll get to talk to a lot of girls. You can accept invitation to parties or host one yourself. Don't be too forceful and face the person you want to talk to. Making your body language open and approachable should help you with this.

Make eye contact and give her the attention and intention that you want to talk to her. You can be excited to talk to her but you can't be too over eager about it.  You don't want to scare her away by overwhelming her and leaning in too close.

If you already know her, you can just say hello and say her name. Being direct works this way and avoid making things complicated for yourself. But for most of the girls you don't know, start with a confident introduction of yourself. When she gives you her name, you can make her feel special by repeating it when you talk to her. Actually talk to her when you're talking to her.

Give her the attention she deserves. When you're exchanging information, keep it light and positive.

It's great when you can accomplish that with just about anyone you can talk to, really. She'll be able to enjoy the conversation more and keep it going when you can do just that. Anything that's negative in nature will probably turn her off so don't go there if you can. Make sure your day doesn't interfere with you making small talk with her especially when it's not going too good. When you can't think of anything to say, blurt out a compliment that's true.

When it doesn't lead anywhere, a good compliment still makes her feel good about herself so it's all good. You should always be looking for something in common with her but don't force it.

If she likes something and you like something then that's a good enough reason to talk about it. It can be something that she can relate to and make a connection with. Even when you think it's not a good topic, you never know where it can lead you. When you can find a common interest, keep to it.

Share something personal about yourself and elaborate on what you really mean to say. But don't make it too personal just yet if you don't want to freak her out. Now that you're talking about yourself, it's time to let her talk about herself.

Questions are always a good way to know more about her when you need to.

Again, don't ask anything that's considered too personal like health, religion, or political views. Just remember to keep it light and funny and good. Talk about what she likes to do or what she likes in general.

When she's done talking, you can then continue on with another question or just a funny remark about her reply. Be sure you're not asking her too many a question that it's making her uncomfortable. You don't want to make her feel like she's being interrogated for something she didn't do.

Let her breath some air for a while and maintain a good balance with your questions.  You can have some time to think about your next move when she's talking and you're just listening. Most of all, you should never forget to listen. Really listen to what she's really saying and really understand her every word.

This can help you find more things to talk about and lead the conversation to something more fun. Keep your ears open for anything that might lead you to discover something new about her. Don't worry about talking too much just don't forget to listen. You can make people keep on talking and talking if you can just listen to them.

Letting others tell their own opinion will improve the quality of the discussion. Before you part ways, you'll know more things about her than most people do about you.

Get The Girls with Magnetic Messaging

That's right, you should be getting dates when you try and text a girl. Once you know how to really text girls, you won't have problems getting dates like your friends. Many misconceptions involve the girl not liking the guy and losing interest.

If you can't keep her entertained with your text messages, you'll lose her interest for sure.

Texting girls becomes easy once you know the secret to it only the top guys in the world know. Getting the knowledge is only the start of your journey, you need to walk it, too.

It will be easier if you know the mistakes to overcome when texting girls.  

Don't send any boring text

Don't bore her with a boring text that's going nowhere. Don't be like all the rest of the world who's taking it for granted what she reads from them. And if she's not texting you, don't flood her inbox with your mindless lame texts. If you knwo how, make her curious about what you're sending her.

Avoid sending her too many text at a time, wait for her to read them at least. And, don't make long conversations when you're texting her. Follow the magnetic massaging ebook.

If you really like her, make sure you do it right. Don't make the same mistake most guys make, showing too much thirst for a reply. If it's the first text, you can send her anything any time you have the chance to do it. You can text her even when she's in front of you and that would be funny, too.

Believe it or not, girls like it that you text her sooner than you think. Don't wait for her to forget you, you're only making it hard on yourself. It's just dumb. When your number pops again on her phone, she'll immediately know who you are. Never receive any weird message from any girl when you text them for the first time. If she's really hot and goes out a lot, she probably has a lot of guys texting her. If you don't text her when you have the chance, she'll forget you like you never existed.

And she'll lose any interest she had in you. You need to pop into her mind as soon as you can so you'll be larger than any other of her text buddies. And it can't be anything lame either, you gotta start out right so do it right the first time. Remind her of the good times, the fun times she had when meeting you.

That always seem to work great. Get the good things going and don't cut it short even when you're just texting her. Quite simple, right? You don't have to be a genius to do this. Start with something you remember about her or something you talked about. And before getting finger happy, think first if it's worth replying to or not. Ponder within yourself whether what you're sending her is good enough to get a reply. Chances are, if something makes you laugh, maybe it will make her laugh, too. You should never let how much you like her take over.

Checking your phone all the time is a symptom of that.

Beware. 

If you start placing too much importance on her, you'll easily make mistakes. This hole will make you lose your self and personality and turn you bad at texting. You may even start showing jealousy which is a no-no if you know what I mean. It can even make her think twice before meeting you again. And that's not good. Clear you mind. You don't have a relationship with her so clearly you can't be jealous out of nothing. Unless you're a psycho. If she doesn't reply that often and makes you feel jealous, ignore it.

Don't give her the impression that you're just another chump waiting on her. You know she's not the only girl you have your eyes on, so show it and act like it. Never send her any needy text show how much you need her.

Don't let it kill the attraction you have going for you. And that includes not sending your reply too soon every time you receive a message from her. Take your time and let her wait, the world won't end when you do. And of course, you don't want to send her too many text more than you need to.

It should be about the same or less. Don't get too happy with emoticons, either. Don't be texting her when you're drunk or bored or when you're not thinking clearly. Don't even attempt to send her anything that will get you some kind of validation. Don't talk about anything not worth talking about unless you just want to be friends with her. Change subjects when you spot them and avoid the trap. Why not just tease her and build more attraction. GIve her the impression that you're always having fun.

Just show her that you are not like any other chump out there.  Tease her as you would a girl who you're close with. Do this and she'll be thinking about you all night long. Make her wonder if she's missing out by not being with you. You can do this by not answering every question she asks you. Know that what's important is the personality you're showing her in every message in you send. You know you'll only bore her with questions, so don't do it.

Just do something else. Keep in mind that you're not in an interview so avoid the questions already. Remember to include some personality to a message that will make her want to respond. Make her laughing out loud and get her addicted to your text messages. You can do that. To get her laughing on your first text, anything that's funny before can still be funny now.

Let Go And Be a Badass with The Tao of Badass

If you want to be a badass, know that it can mean something very different for some people in society.  What's important is, if you want to attract women, it's good to have a little of that badass attitude incorporated into your life.  You don't want the women to turn away from you so keep your badass self in check when you do.

You'll have more success and you'll feel yourself getting better and better at talking to them as each day goes by.  You can be sure that the numbers you get are real numbers and are not fake numbers.  Most girls will give you their drinks if you want them.  If you don't know what this is like, you're in for a new exciting experience with women.  And you'll see this in the way women respond and communicate to you on a regular basis. 

Be Better

You'll have it better than what most guys ever hope to achieve once you know how to bring out your badass self to meet the women of your dreams right now.  You'll be on the minds of women and they won't put you on the dreaded friend zone.  The women you meets you will always remember you as the positive and enchanting person you are. This makes it easier when you want to go out with the women you meet for another time.  This is an easy way to stand out among others as their prospective mate.  

Learn to become a refined badass with the tao of badass by joshua pellicer wherever you go.  Seducing women will be like child's game when you can grasp this concept. The techniques you will learn will be just another added bonus you can use interacting with women.  That when you can use them, you'll easily see why you haven't had any real success meeting women.  Incorporate being a badass into your personality and approach using the tao of badass.  

Learn it all

You can easily get your hands on new tactics you can use in making yourself a badass with women.  As well as getting yourself the badass attitude when you're around women.  As these are virtually unknown to most guys, you know the possibility you possess in your hands, don't you?  You can be more confident around women and hold your own during various situations.  

Don't let any more women get away from you by being a badass whenever you can.  Don't be like the men out there who are handsome but don't have the strategy to win with women.  You don't have to be affected by break ups and you can still be friends with your exes.

Since you have real confidence, you can be calm even if people try to mess up your interactions.  You can look women straight in the eyes because you are comfortable with yourself.  The hottest girls in the club won't be a problem to talk to if you want to get to know her more.  Getting over rejections is no big deal since you can instantly talk to anyone you like without problems.  You'll have women who gravitates to you easily because you are attractive to them.  Becoming the man among man attracts women like nothing else in the world.  

If you're still wondering what the right way to attract women is.  Time won't make a difference if no one is helping you figure this thing out man.  If you want something that you can use right away to help you meet women, it's here.  How you see yourself in the mirror always has an effect on women.  Try to express yourself while still looking good.

Make a Change

Find the right shirt, the right hair style, use perfume to make yoruself smell good.  If you can attract women with your looks, you're almost halfway there.  Become good at making conversation with anyone not just women, should be next.  Develop a conversation style that captivates women.  Get her interested and invested in everything you have to say.  Ask her what she likes without being too obvious about it and get her telling you all these things.  Do not bore her with stuff you don't know anything about.  Keep these things in mind when you're face to face with pretty girls. 

It takes effort but if you commit fully to the tao of badass pdf program you'll have the confidence to do that.  It will also help you navigate through your relationships when you're on that stage.  Now average guys like you can become a confident badass with women.  Take this time and be social, you might not have this kind of opportunity some other time.  

You can even break the rules, the small ones everyone agrees are ridiculous. If some rules don't seem to make sense, go ahead and challenge them when you got better things to do.  Show confidence in whatever you do, hold eye contact longer than the other person and be a little louder and assertive in your conversations. 

Humor Me Please!

If you use humor, you can make those around you laugh more, of course. Their stress will also lower to ground level and the conversation more fun and joyous. You don't want you date to fall asleep while she's eating with some boring talk. Boring date. Add humor. Becomes a good and enjoyable date for the both of you. You won't think it's true, but if your relationship is about to met the ax, just use humor. Maybe you can still work things out.

 

Humor and Attraction

It can't be argued that if you want to attract women these days or even before, that you gotta have some funny bones in you. Use humor and the girl will almost always overlook your flaws. That's guaranteed. Certainly, laughing can make people feel amazing. And it brings them closer, too. Who doesn't want that?

It brings people closer together because humor and laughter ties them together really tight, if you think about it. Humor can be also like oil, making the rough parts just slide, and recognize what really matters. Since humor is so effective, bad feelings won't linger and good feelings will soon surface. Think about it, you can be happy and sad, really sad at the same time. One has to be stronger than the other.

Making someone laugh is an effective strategy if you want to cause change on someone's current behavior. When we are happy, we talk more, make more eye contact, and touch others. Watch as she gets more alert and excited. She'll be full of energy for some later activities. Humor is the best medicine - whoever said that is absolutely right.

Men who have a good sense of humor ranks high in personality traits that attract women, that's according to surveys. Having a great sense of humor can make a lot of difference when dating women.

Girls see a guy with a great sense of humor attractive because it makes the conversation lighter. Don't be boring. Add life to your conversations with women. And don't take your life so seriously every minute of the day. You know, you're considered more smart and intelligent if you can use your sense of humor instantly and effortlessly. if you have a good sense of humor, it means you're also creative. Apparently, guys who can make women laugh can understand them better as well.

 

Humor and Good Health

Let's take a look at why laughter is good for your even more. If you think about it, it's great for the body and the emotions. Humor makes you healthier as it lowers stress and allows you to relax. And makes you heal faster, too. Now it makes sense what a good sense of humor really does to your body and why women like it so much. Who the hell doesn't want a guy with a sense of humor if you look at those benefits. Confident that all problems will pass and move on with hope.

Physical attractiveness don't matter that much when you got something better like your sense of humor. Make women feel more relax and at ease so they'll be more open to you with almost anything. Anything. It certainly boosts her self-esteem when guys makes her laugh. It's the natural reaction to humor.

Use it whenever you talk to women. Get her attracted to you and even more attracted to you. If she's testing you, use high status humor to defuse the situation. Tease her about it and move on.

Seeing how it is now, don't you think humor's the answer to everything? I think so, too. Now you know about these results, tell the world about it. It will make the world a better place to live in. Reward your every day interactions with humor and build relationships around it.

How to Get a Girlfriend Tips

It's sad that most men have no clue on how to get a girlfriend. In today's world, there are many tools to help you meet women and get a girlfriend. Getting a girlfriend is not something taught in school. It is a natural urge for men to get a girlfriend. And it is something you do as a man.

Here are some tips on how to get a pretty girlfriend:

Use dating websites. This is arguably one of the easiest ways to meet and find a girlfriend today. You'll be able to read profiles of women interested in having a relationship. You can also use social networking sites to meet women and get a girlfriend.

Impress her friends. Make her happy by making her friends and family happy. If you impress them,, you'll have a chance of impressing her. If she's your friend, meet those important people in her life.

Be open about your feelings. Let her know that you want her as a girlfriend. And make her feel cared for. Make it so that you're not just interested in her for sex.

Ask her out. Don't be afraid to ask women out. Take her to a mini date like a lunch or coffee. Enjoy things you both share.

Give her some compliments. Give her good comments when you notice something good about her. Women appreciate it.

Be gentle. Do not be too overly aggressive. Give her some space if she needs it. Make her comfortable when she's with you.

Expand your horizons and getting a girlfriend should be easier. Keep on trying until you find the right woman for you. Read the tao of badass best review if you want to get better at meeting women.